bear one another’s burdens

Old oxen yoke up against the wall in a barn in Nebraska

So few people understand how to “bear one another’s burdens”, especially when it comes to grief.

I don’t fault those who are bad at it but do in fact actually try.

I do however find fault with those who don’t even try. Because you should.

Over and over we are commanded in Scripture to fulfill the “one another…” commands.

Some of these we do better at than others and I think attending to our brother’s mental and spiritual health is probably one where we’re lacking.

There is a massive need for counseling in the church.

Countless people, even before the last two years of this pandemic, who silently and continually carry around really significant burdens and do so largely in isolation.

Part of that is because nobody can afford the professionals.

The other reason is we can so rarely seem to get past the noisy shop talk, the programs and the “doing stuff”. We so rarely take time away from the busyness of “church life” to simply slow down and go deeper. Really get to know our brothers. To know them intimately.

Sure we do the quick prayer requests for the light and mundane stuff. Job stuff, Aunt Edna is sick again. Very rarely does the really heavy baggage come out of the closet.

I can’t help but think the primary reason for that is people are afraid if they share what’s really going on in their heart that their brothers and sisters will just look at them in bewilderment and awkward silence.

I think they’re afraid nobody would be willing to even enter into whatever it is they are going through.

And I think they’re probably right.

That’s some heavy lifting.

And frankly, most just aren’t willing to put in the work of love.

So we keep it surface level. We only reveal what we feel will be received. And the real heavy stuff, that stays in the closet to be carried out in isolation.

So the issue remains, we have a massive need for real counseling in the church.

But here’s the deal. We don’t need professional counselors to help our brothers and sisters who are grieving, anxious, depressed. We don’t even need to push this significant burden on the church staff because they’re the “professionals” and we’re just an unqualified pew sitter.

And those are really poor excuses anyway for failing to love our brothers and sisters well by helping them to bear their burdens. Because we don’t need professional counselors, we don’t need church staffers, we just need brothers and sisters who are willing to come along side and love one another in a deeper way.

We simply have to love them.

We have to stop thinking about ourselves long enough to actually take notice of our brother’s countenance and then when the Holy Spirit moves upon our hearts, instead of suppressing that inclination to ask, “Hey brother, how are you doing? I mean really? Are you okay? I just want you to know that I love you. The Lord loves you. And I’m hear to share your burden with you in any way that I can.”

That’s it.

You just have to be willing. You don’t need to be a professional counselor to do that. You don’t need to be a church staffer or have a seminary degree to do that.

You simply have to care enough to ask. Or to follow up. Or to stop saying, “I’ll be praying for you.” and instead say, “Okay, let’s just pray right now okay.” And then pray over your brother. And then follow up with them. Check in on them. Give them liberty to take some of whatever weight their are carrying around and throw some of it on your shoulders.

You don’t need a degree and certifications to do that. You just need a heart that’s inclined toward your brother and his welfare.

But here’s the deal. A heart that works like that is only born of the Holy Spirit. No natural man can love his brother like this. The Lord however, he loves perfectly. And if we would simply yield to the Holy Spirit in our lives, if we would simply embrace his fellowship, like he’s a real person (because he is) he would work mightily in us to be ministers to our brothers in their need. To bind up wounds, to share in burdens to fulfill the law of Christ. “Love another.”

So here’s my challenge to you.

Are you doing this?

Have you ever stopped the surface level chit chat and actually asked your brother, “Hey man, how are you doing? You okay? Need to talk?”

If you haven’t, then you probably should.


I’d encourage you to pray and take this to the Lord. Ask him, “Lord, who needs me to share their burden?” And then wait and listen. He’ll show you. He knows who needs to be ministered to and exactly how that ministering needs to be done.

You just have incline your ear to him, that’s all.

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the futility of our minds…

“Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds.” – Ephesians 4:17

Why did Paul call our minds “futile”?

He uses the Greek words here: “mataiotés” for “futile” which means: vanity, emptiness, unreality, purposelessness, ineffectiveness, instability, frailty; false religion.

And “nous” for minds, which means: the mind, the reason, the reasoning faculty, intellect.

So Paul says our minds, our reasoning ability, our intellects are vanity, emptiness and ineffective.

Now consider 1 Corinthians 1:27 and 2:6:16

And then…

“16And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, “You may surely eat of every tree of the garden, 17but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eatd of it you shall surely die.”” – Genesis 2:16

“It is written in the Prophets, ‘And they will all be taught by God.’ Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to me” – John 6:45

“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.” – Romans 10:17

“But it is the spirit in man, the breath of the Almighty, that makes him understand.” – Job 32:8

“0Then the disciples came and said to him, “Why do you speak to them in parables?” 11And he answered them, “To you it has been given to know the secrets of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it has not been given. 12For to the one who has, more will be given, and he will have an abundance, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away. 13This is why I speak to them in parables, because seeing they do not see, and hearing they do not hear, nor do they understand. 14Indeed, in their case the prophecy of Isaiah is fulfilled that says:

“‘“You will indeed hear but never understand,

and you will indeed see but never perceive.”

15For this people’s heart has grown dull,

and with their ears they can barely hear,

and their eyes they have closed,

lest they should see with their eyes

and hear with their ears

and understand with their heart

and turn, and I would heal them.’

16But blessed are your eyes, for they see, and your ears, for they hear. 17For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it.” – Matthew 13:10-17

“33And when they came to a place called Golgotha (which means Place of a Skull), 34they offered him wine to drink, mixed with gall, but when he tasted it, he would not drink it. 35And when they had crucified him, they divided his garments among them by casting lots. ” – Matthew 27:33-35

“He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who conquers I will grant to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.’” – Revelation 2:7

Friends, which tree are you eating from?

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bearing the burden of babe yet born

    overflowing with joy for soon coming morn’

enduring the labor that brings forth life

    ordained that her desire would come by strife

suckling babe knows loves first care

    at the sweet flowing breast his mother doth share

babe grows to boy and boy to man

    still man knows love by his mother’s own hand

she sees her babe, now a man

    bear her burden, by Providence’ plan

He embraces her suffering by the blood of his cross

    Son of Glory covered in dross

in the midst of his suffering, few by his side

    but mother that bore him, who shares in his life

as body gives way and he’s crushed by grief

    Son’s thought turns to mother and her need to meet

being full of glory, God in the flesh

    pours out his love from his own pierced chest

mother now knows the love of her Son

    His love that worked in her before his first day was one

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Do not resist him.

“You stiff-necked people, uncircumcised in heart and ears, you always resist the Holy Spirit. As your fathers did, so do you.”

Acts 7:51
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The Gatekeeper

“But the Scripture imprisoned everything under sin, so that the promise by faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe.” – Galatians 3:22

If the Scriptures are good, and they are, why do they imprison everything under sin?


The wages of sin is death friends. (Rom 6:23)

But the Spirit is life…

“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” – 2 Corinthians 3:17

So Paul teaches us here clearly that it is the Holy Scriptures themselves that condemn us. It is the Scriptures themselves that imprison us under sin.


“so that the promise by FAITH in Jesus Christ might be GIVEN to those who BELIEVE.”

Because we can’t read a book and be made righteous before a Holy God. Even if that book is very good, the very Holy testimony of God himself.



“By works of the law shall no man be justified.”

No man will find right standing before God by the things he DOES.


“The righteous shall LIVE by FAITH.”

So then what of faith? What does that mean? How does one live by faith?

Hebrews clearly defines faith for us:

“Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” – Hebrews 11:1

So faith is an assurance of that which we HOPE for, the conviction of the things we do NOT see but do HOPE for.

You know, like the forgiving of our sins and right standing before a Holy God.

So then how does faith come?


“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.” – Romans 10:17

Through the “word” of Christ? What does that mean?

That word “word” in Greek is “rhematos” and it means this:

“1. properly, that which is or has been uttered by the LIVING VOICE (emphasis mine), thing spoken, word”

Here’s the link you can read it for yourself.

So Scripture imprisons.

The Spirit sets free.

And he does this by GRACE (that is a free gift) through FAITH (belief in that which is NOT seen.

And faith comes by HEARING the LIVING VOICE of Christ, that is the Holy Spirit.

Consider the following passage from John 10:

“1“Truly, truly, I say to you, he who does not enter the sheepfold by the door but climbs in by another way, that man is a thief and a robber. 2But he who enters by the door is the shepherd of the sheep. 3To him the gatekeeper opens. The sheep hear his voice, and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. 4When he has brought out all his own, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice. 5A stranger they will not follow, but they will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers.” 6This figure of speech Jesus used with them, but they did not understand what he was saying to them.

7So Jesus again said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. 8All who came before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. 9I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. 10The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. 11I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. 12He who is a hired hand and not a shepherd, who does not own the sheep, sees the wolf coming and leaves the sheep and flees, and the wolf snatches them and scatters them. 13He flees because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep. 14I am the good shepherd. I know my own and my own know me, 15just as the Father knows me and I know the Father; and I lay down my life for the sheep. 16And I have other sheep that are not of this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd. 17For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down my life that I may take it up again. 18No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from my Father.”

19There was again a division among the Jews because of these words. 20Many of them said, “He has a demon, and is insane; why listen to him?” 21Others said, “These are not the words of one who is oppressed by a demon. Can a demon open the eyes of the blind?””

So friends, who is the Door?

Jesus tells us plainly he is the Door.

But what of the Gatekeeper, the one who “opens the door for the sheep.”

Who opens the Door (Jesus) for the sheep?

Certainly not the Scriptures, they are those that imprison all things under sin.

It is the Holy Spirit that opens Jesus to us friends. It is God the Holy Spirit himself who sets us free in Christ.

And he does this by grace through faith, in the very good news that Jesus Christ died and rose for the forgiving of our sins and ALL of that… in accordance with the Scriptures, the very Scriptures that imprisoned us under sin.

Do you hear the cross and the resurrection in this friends?

Do you see how at once the Scriptures are the righteous demands of a Holy God that slay sin in the flesh? But the cross is not the totality of the good news! The Resurrection is the SPIRIT! It is He who sets us free from the bondage of sin and death because of the precious shed blood of Jesus.

So we see the cross is still at work. The Scriptures still crucify but when the reader enters the Door by the Porter, he’s made alive in the resurrected power of Jesus that IS the Holy Spirit.

The letter does indeed kill friends. But the Spirit so also gives LIFE!

“4Such is the confidence that we have through Christ toward God. 5Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us, but our sufficiency is from God, 6who has made us sufficient to be ministers of a new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit. For the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.” – 2 Corinthians 3

Grace and peace to you in Jesus’ name.

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I know Him.


What evidence do I need?

Ask me about evidence…  are you joking?  I mean is this a joke?  You want me to provide you some kind of proof?  Some kind of evidence that the resurrection of Jesus Christ is a historical fact?

You know every year I hear the same refrain over and over again.

Arguments made for the historicity and legitimacy of the claim that Jesus Christ rose from the dead.

And they’re all good arguments with frankly just about as high a burden of proof being met as any claim would need to meet in order to be established as fact to any reasonable person.

But can I be honest with you?  As a personal friend of the Man, I’m indignant at the request.

I see all these appeals to the historical accuracy of the gospel accounts.  To the reliability of Scripture and the extra biblical historical sources that corroborate the testimonies we find in the Gospel accounts.

I hear the common appeals to the reasonability or logical soundness of the claim that Christ conquered the grave; why this audacious claim should in fact be believed as true.  It’s as if I can use the faculties of my feeble intellect to compel you, or perhaps it’s myself I’m attempting to convince here, that what I say I believe is actually true so then I won’t be, in fact, a mad man who believes the silly idea that a dead man up and walked out of his own grave and did so by his own power and volition no less.

Just hold up right there for one second okay.  Let me be totally honest with you for just a minute.

I have personally walked with this man for over 30 years.  I was just a little boy when I first heard his sweet voice.

I testify before God and all men, that the Lord Jesus Christ revealed himself to me and promised me that if I trusted him he would save me from my sin.

And every single day since, I have sinned and he has saved.

I have walked with him.  I have learned from him.  I have prayed to him and I have heard him.  I have run from him.  I have screamed at him at the top of my lungs.  I have begged and pleaded with him.  I have praised him and worshiped him. I have suffered with him and I have found him.  I have supped with him and he with me and I have known the steadfastness of his love and the immeasurable riches of his glorious grace.

I don’t know OF the Man.  I know HIM.  I know Him by experience.

So I’ll ask the question again.


What evidence do I need?

I know Him.

I know the Man I tell you.

Do you hear me?

I KNOW Him and I tell you he LIVES.

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No where else to go

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66After this many of his disciples turned back and no longer walked with him. 67So Jesus said to the twelve, “Do you want to go away as well?” 68Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life, 69and we have believed, and have come to know, that you are the Holy One of God.”

John 6:66-69

There’s no where else to go.

I don’t know who needs to hear this right now but I feel compelled that many of you may in fact be the one for whom this word is intended.

Everything you need for the valley that you are walking through right now can be found only in Jesus.

Don’t run from him.

There’s no where to go out there. There’s only darkness.

Return to your Shepherd, find comfort at his side.

If you don’t have the strength to make it back to him then simply call out his name.



Help me Lord Jesus.

The good Shepherd cares for the sheep.

If one is lost will he not leave all the others to search out, to seek and save that which is lost?


He will.

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Lord… Come!

Hey, honest question.

You don’t have to answer here.

But if you’re reading this and you’re a disciple of Jesus I want to encourage you to ask yourself this question.

“If the Holy Spirit says Lord “come” and the Bride, that is, the church of Jesus Christ says “come”; do I echo this same refrain?

In my heart do I say, “Come Lord Jesus?”

Do I long for Jesus to come?

And I don’t mean give me the rote church answer “maranatha Lord!”, I mean seriously, just between you and Jesus and the dark.

What’s in your heart?

Do I really long to see him?


Do I find myself caught up in the love of this world?

My career, my dreams, my hopes and aspirations, my family and friends, “my” nice life. Do any or all of these things keep me from saying…

“Even so, come Lord Jesus!”

If they do, can I be honest with you? There’s idolatry in your heart.

There is something other than the King of Kings on the throne within you.

I can’t encourage you enough with what I’m going to say next friend.

Jesus is better.

Whatever it is you love that keeps you from truly being able to say, “come Lord Jesus”, it’s a lie, a mirage. It will not satisfy.

Jesus can, will be and is the portion of your cup. He and only he is able to be the all satisfying drink you seek.

So repent. And take your drink anew from the water without price, the spiritual drink that by the Spirit you may say,

“Lord… Come!”

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Blessed are those who…

So our church just began a study of the Book of Revelation.

I think it goes without saying this book tends to bother people and can generally stir up feelings of angst. The last book of the Bible’s a doozy by anyone’s standard.

That said, I want to encourage anyone who might feel this way about the book of Revelation; if you will read this book and commit it to prayer the Lord will surely bless you for it.

Did you know that Revelation is the only book in the Bible to promise a blessing to those who read it?

“3Blessed is the one who reads aloud the words of this prophecy, and blessed are those who hear, and who keep what is written in it, for the time is near.” – Rev 1:3

Certainly we’d be blessed to read any of part of the Bible but isn’t it interesting that this book among all books of the Bible is the only one that states a specific blessing to those who read it? Moreover those who “read ALOUD the words of this prophecy”.

So out loud.

Why did the Lord have John write those words “read ALOUD”?

What is the significance of this?

I’m not sure I know. But I’m guessing there’s a reason for it.

In the final chapter of the book Jesus reiterates this promise of blessing.

Only this time to those who “keep” the words of the prophecy of this book, that is, those who guard the word heard.

“7“And behold, I am coming soon. Blessed is the one who keeps the words of the prophecy of this book.”” – Rev 22:7

The Greek word for “keep” here is the same word Jesus used in John 14

“22Judas (not Iscariot) said to him, “Lord, how is it that you will manifest yourself to us, and not to the world?” 23Jesus answered him, “If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. 24Whoever does not love me does not keep my words. And the word that you hear is not mine but the Father’s who sent me.

25“These things I have spoken to you while I am still with you. 26But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. 27Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” – John 14

So Jesus teaches us that the Holy Spirit who was to come and is now here is the one who will “teach you”, and not just somethings, but “all things…” and as he teaches us if we keep the word heard he promises us we will have his peace.

Earlier in his ministry Jesus also said this of the Holy Spirit:

“37On the last day of the feast, the great day, Jesus stood up and cried out, “If anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink. 38Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, ‘Out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.’” 39Now this he said about the Spirit, whom those who believed in him were to receive, for as yet the Spirit had not been given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.” – John 7

So Jesus said this living water, the Holy Spirit, would flow out of our hearts.

Not into, but out of.

What is the Lord saying here?

How might this give meaning to Revelation’s promise to bless those who “read ALOUD” and “keep” the words of the prophecy of this book?

Some final Scripture to chew on as you consider these things:

““The Spirit of the LORD speaks by me;

his word is on my tongue.” – 2 Samuel 23:2

“17“‘And in the last days it shall be, God declares,

that I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh,

and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy” – Acts 2:17

“The Spirit and the bride say, “Come.” And let the one who hears say, “Come.” And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who wishes take the water of life without cost.” – Rev 22:17

I pray the Lord bless you and keep you this day and that as you abide in his Word you know his perfect peace.

Grace and peace to you all in Jesus’ precious name.

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Be encouraged

Brothers and sisters, do you ever get really discouraged by your lack of growth in things that really matter? In your sanctification?

You look back on your life and see all the sin that the Lord saved you from and then you look in the mirror and still see more sin.

More anger, more lust, more envy, more pride.

Be encouraged.

He’s not finished with you yet.

Take your eyes off yourself. Set them squarely on the empty cross and the empty grave and rest assured, the one who called you out of darkness and into his marvelous light will finish the work that the Father has so purposed to achieve.

You can’t build this house. But Lord can. And the Lord will.

Jesus is mighty to save to the uttermost. His mercies are new every morning. Where sin abounds the grace of God in the face of Jesus Christ aboundeth all the much more.

So take heart.

If you stumble the Lord is able to make you stand and HE will finish this very good work that HE started in you.

“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”

Philippians 1:6 ESV
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